結過婚就真係唔得?

其實從眼神一睇就知道大家對大家有一定唧好感。年紀大咗掛，經驗又好，直覺又好，好快就知道比好感無再多好多任何嘢，但大家都知道我地互相會為對方盡量抽少少時間比對方。

但從知道咗佢結過婚嗰刻開始，估唔到，感覺就變咗。

我即刻話比同學會知，阿蕉好出奇。

唔單止佢，我都好出奇......

從來都係一個被認為，或者自己認為，好open同睇得開唧人，今次連我都好出奇。結過婚有咩咁大不了，有咩問題？但嗰刻即刻就有啲 turn-off 唧感覺......

之後唸番，覺得唔通係因為佢已經為過另外一個人真心咁 commit 同 settle down with 過, 而對我只係揾一個適合同 logical 唧 partner, 所以好 turned off? 我都唔知。雖然我從來都真係對 mutual 唧感覺好執著, 但係唔知係今次係因為只係想為自己 justify, 定係純粹因為唔係 mutual 同 partner hunting 所以就 turn off? 我都唔知道....

Ideal dates

Came across this funny email thread asking sssa about their ideal dates long time back:

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I think it's fun to write down a list of elements that you want to see from your dates and your problems that they have to put up with you. what's your?? =) My ideal dates: passionate someone enjoy exchanging ideas and feelings care about social issues easy going, not measuring, not realistic Things you have to put up with me: I tend to ignore demanding requests I need personal space I do drink quite a bit, but i don't like getting drunk I enjoy spending time with you, but there're other important things in life too I have an evil twin called Judy and... I don't agree on the current role of guys being slaves when it comes to dating a hk girl btw, chong, citibank has recent changes in the senior management, this is your chance to do your personal stuff at work. Fat B, use your imagination, put away Cathy from your mind for 10 mins =P ~~~~~~ chong's (refined) list (on his blog): ~~~~~~ Ideal dates 1. funny or sense of humor 2. cheerful 3. appreciate my character 4. slim 5. have a sense of what's going on w/ the society 6. share my interests in movies and music 7. share similar core values Things she has to bear in mind 1. give me space 2. I don't have evil twins but quite a few evil friends 3. I'm sweet (haha) but I'm not a 100% romance seeker 4. I can sometimes be quite sarcastic 5. I'm a cool-headed (or cool-hearted you can say) person who don't usually show much excitement. ~~~~~~ 而家睇番就知點解何小姐咁怕肥..... 而阿蕉就因為喺飲醉酒唧時候, 對好多唔熟唧人,公開咗自己個blog。所以第二日就要delete 咗個blog去... 所以揾唔番佢講乜lu... 而肥B，當然一如以往係唔會話比我地知啦.... :)

Our creative director Fat B

Just happened to have watched a movie conversation on TV discussing different sex positions. First thing comes to my mind is Fat B. He's truly the only one within our circle that would ask all these interesting scientific questions out of the blue and 1) make us laugh to death, 2) make us wonder how his brain functions, and 3) make us wonder how Cathy is handling all these questions....

One day Fat B suddenly asked in email:
um, i may ask fong in my blog: "how to make cute babies? which
position to use?" ;-)

Perhaps we should document all Fat B's comments and questions....

Hate new year resolutions, yet coming up with my own... crap! :)

I hate new year resolution as usual, like always... didn't plan to write my own until I find it pretty fun to see GG's evaluating of her own from 2006. Guess I'm obsessed with evaluating certain things. what the heck, lets see how am I going to evaluate these next year:

1. Explore US software startup opportunties and opportunities in china, at least to a point that I can say there's no better opportunties I can find or the good ones are not really good fits to me
2. Maintain at least the same level of dedication to work and better manage my work time, at least to a point I don't feel sorry when I look back. (hm... how do i quantify this?)
3. From my to-read list, finish at least one every 2 months or 6 books a year (this is really tough for me, guess i'm pushing the limit here =p)
4. Do one of the following: starting documenting at least one interesting person within my friend circle from the second degree and up/starting writing down my novel ideas/starting documenting sssa past events. Exception: unless there's a need for me to play a dedicated role in Wun's movie script
   
5. Able to carry out a simple mandarin conversation (hehe, lets not make this measurable)
6. Write the postcards I've bought in Argentina to my sponsor kids (haven't wrote to them for years, lets keep this goal acheivable =p)
7. Take one fun course, spanish, dance, or whatever
8. Get comfortable with chinese typing. (this is so critical to #4, but this can be such a time demanding item. someone please slap this undecisive/greedy slacker to take this item off!)
9. Do one of the following: Get Yung Yee VIP card by helping Chong to do whatever it takes to become a "fu ma" (okay okay, kiding!!)/Say I love you to 356 unique people/Start falling for less wrong people =P
   
10. Maintain a body weight of 139.99 pounds or less, for as least 3 months (serious, seriously tough, looking at our mom GG would help a bit)

Lets stop here, really no point to put tons of others on my mind to here since i might already need a miracle to really accomplish all these... Better keep the list "short" and try to do a good job at every one of them :)

ps According to my casual observation, new year resolutions work for typically only 3 months for most people....